"'Meant to be' can be a beacon of hope after a string of bad first dates or a marriage that ended in divorce...It also comes with risk. Believing you are with the 'right' and 'only' person can influence partners to stay in abusive and toxic relationships. It can also cause daters to exit relationships too early, presuming that the 'right' person is still out there, the next swipe on their dating app," explains psychologist Greg Matos, PsyD, ABPP (@greg.matos). Instead of waiting for a soulmate to appear, watch for these signs that you’re in a highly compatible, secure, and healthy long-term relationship. Do you believe in soulmates, or do you think there are several matches that could potentially make you happy for the rest of your life? Let us know in the comments. 💭 Do you know someone who should read this? Share it with them. 👀 Click the link in our bio to read more. #psychology #relationships #love #trust #commitment #soulmate