When @gabormatemd told me this, it stopped me in my tracks… Siblings may grow up in the same house, but that doesn’t mean their childhoods were the same. Not even close. Same parents? Nope. Same family? Nope. Same childhood? Absolutely not. Parents show up differently for each child depending on the season of their life, their relationship, and even their financial situation. It’s not about who is loved more. It’s about how that love is expressed — and how each child experiences it. If you’ve ever wondered why you and your siblings remember childhood so differently — this is why. This clip is from my conversation with Dr. Gabor Maté on @themelrobbinspodcast 🎧 “Why You Feel Lost in Life: Dr. Gabor Maté on Trauma & How to Heal.” You can learn more about this and so much more in his incredible book The Myth of Normal.